Steffon Ford Obituary (1968 - 2025)

In loving memory of Steffon Ford, who was born on September 24, 1968, in McAlester, OK, USA, to parents Louis R. Ford and Connie J. Ford. Steffon's journey of life concluded on May 3, 2025, leaving behind a legacy of love, compassion, and enduring strength. Her life was beautifully intertwined with the lives of her family and friends, to whom she was a source of unwavering support and inspiration. Steffon graduated from McLain High School, class of 1986, after which she pursued further education in Florida. Upon returning to her beloved hometown, Tulsa, she was employed as a case manager at the Department of Human Services, where she diligently served her community. Steffon's work ethic was admirable, and she was a respected figure among her colleagues. In the words of Helen Keller, "The only way to do great work is to love what you do," and Steffon truly loved her work. Blessed with a nurturing spirit, Steffon was a loving mother to her two beautiful children, Donta' Rashad Ford, who sadly preceded her in death, and her daughter Khalilah Bailee Elam, fondly known as Le Le. She was an adoring grandmother to Donta' Jr, who brought immense joy to her life. Steffon was also survived by her sister, Louisa Meade, and her brothers, Louis Ford Jr, John W. Ford, and Richard D. Moton. Steffon was a woman of many passions, including cooking, trying new foods, makeup, and hairstyling. She enjoyed spending quality time with her family and friends, creating memories that would last a lifetime. She was an active member of the RRTEC Church, where she found solace and spiritual fulfillment. Her life was a testament to the words of Mother Teresa, "The most important thing is not what we do, but the love we put in the doing." Steffon was a beacon of strength and courage for all who knew her. She is fondly remembered by her family and friends, who were touched by her kindness and love. She once said, "Never walk alone, always walk with Christ," a sentiment that perfectly encapsulates her faith and the way she lived her life. She loved her children, Donta’ and D.j. and her daughter Le Le and she affectionately called her. She loved her sister Wee Wee, and her brothers, Lou Ford, and Johnny Boy. Uncle Harold you were also like her brother that she loved dearly. Andrea her ATL sister, Denece and Lona, and Rita. Uncles; Seth, James, Daryl. Toya, Zaire, Jordin, Dejuan, Danyelle. Bestfriends for life, Shelbie Mcclellan, robin tucker, Sharon Skiratt, Karen King, Cynthia Tucker, Maurna Daniels, Arron Daniels, and Tracie Hill. A host of cousins; Mildred, Loyce, Salam, Nick, Sunni, Mykeionna, Imani, Little Louis, Dejuan, Marcus, Shatana, Lexis, Little Kevin, Tracy, and Nate. Preceded in death by; father Louis R. Ford, son Donta’ Ford, grandmothers Helen Lawrence, Percellia Ray, aunts Andrea M. Patton, Mary E. Moton, Joyce Williams, Lawanda Gordon, and Ruthann Gordon. Niece Janee Hawkins. Uncle Jonathan Lawrence. And grandfather John Gordon. In tribute to Steffon's life, we invite you to share your memories and upload photos of her to the memorial page. These shared experiences will serve as a comforting reminder of the beautiful soul that was Steffon Ford. Let us celebrate Steffon's life and remember her as a woman of strength, love, and faith. As we navigate through this time of grief, we are reminded of the words of Maya Angelou, "People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." Steffon, we love you now and forever, and we miss you deeply. Your spirit continues to guide and inspire us.